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Posted by: SandraO Posts: 6 - Joined: Fri Aug 2nd, 2013 06:43 pm

#528 - by SandraO >> Fri Aug 2nd, 2013 07:08 pm

I lost my darling doggie a week ago - my beautiful Molly was ill and going downhill. The hardest decision of my life!
She was such a special part of my life - I feel like part of me has been snatched away! I miss her so much, my heart is broken.
Posted by: Kath Bentham Posts: 1 - Joined: Sat Aug 3rd, 2013 07:58 pm

#530 - by Kath Bentham >> Sat Aug 3rd, 2013 08:06 pm

I have lost a few cats and dogs over the years, it is heart-breaking, I still miss each and every one of them always and have a cry often, but I know they knew how much I loved and cared for them, they all have a space in my heart and I will never forget them, I have just lost my cat Shelby she was 22 yrs old she died the same day my fifth grandchild was born, it gets easier to cope with, you never stop missing them, but most important is that you loved Molly and did your best for her as most of us do. Thinking of you.XX
Posted by: Christine Oakley Posts: 1 - Joined: Fri Jun 1st, 2012 02:58 pm

#531 - by Christine Oakley >> Sat Aug 3rd, 2013 10:21 pm

Hi Sandra, I am so very sorry for your loss of you dog Molly. I do know how you are feeling as we lost one of our cats Napoleon just over 4 years ago when he got run over. At the time I thought I would never get over his death but time is a great healer... although I still miss him dearly, have my sad moments and hate the anniversary of his passing I have found that as each year passes by it does get a little easier. Remember you gave Molly a wonderful life by taking her into your home just as we did Napoleon and they were both happy... take things a day at a time, talk to people who understand your grief, post on forums such as this where you will get lots of support. Thinking of you at this very sad time. xxx
Posted by: Caroline Jahn Posts: 1 - Joined: Sat Aug 3rd, 2013 10:36 pm

#532 - by Caroline Jahn >> Sat Aug 3rd, 2013 10:40 pm

Hi Sandra
I am so sorry to read about the your terrible loss. Your little dog was a major part of your life and it will hurt for a long time. Remember the love and good times that you had with your little friend and talk to him/her if you need to. Wishing you strength and courage to get through this difficult time. ..xx
Posted by: Eileen Thompson Posts: 3 - Joined: Sat Jan 5th, 2013 02:24 pm

#533 - by Eileen Thompson >> Sun Aug 4th, 2013 07:20 am

I am so sorry about your precious pooch Mollie and my heart goes out to you . I lost mine oin may 2112 and there isn't a day goes by when I think about her and even now writing this my tears ate falling . She was such a special little girl and we only had her for 10 years which I know is a good age but it wasn't long enough . We had to make the decision so quickly as it happened so suddenly and I always feel that I let her down but I know in my heart she couldn't have lived pain free with pancreatic cancer . You have done the best thing possible for your furbaby may she R.I.P and stay in your heart forevermore xxxx
Posted by: mollydog Posts: 1 - Joined: Sat Sep 8th, 2012 07:34 pm

#535 - by mollydog >> Sun Aug 4th, 2013 02:06 pm

I lost my darling Molly almost one year ago....she died very suddenly of a suspected heart-attack, she was almost 6 years old.She was a rescued puppy & we adored her......I know just how you feel...anger, guilt, and pure heartache...I am still missing her & heartbroken. Yes...time does help heal. I have a 'photo of her that I kiss every day, & I have a notebook to write my random thoughts about her....it helps a little bit.At least I did have her to love, & for that I am thankful even though it wasn't long enough!!
Sending you my best wishes that you will get through this x
Mollydog
Posted by: Caroline Gibbins Posts: 6 - Joined: Sun Dec 2nd, 2012 03:42 pm

#536 - by Caroline Gibbins >> Sun Aug 4th, 2013 04:09 pm

So very sorry to hear about your very sad loss. Molly will always be with you in your heart and in your happy memories. You may also feel her gentle presence, as she comes around you in the coming days, to comfort you in your grief. She will be waiting for you and when the time is right you will be reunited. Losing a beloved pet is so hard to bear, as I know from experience over the years. However, you gave Molly a lovely home and the sad price we all have to pay is losing those pets we have dearly loved. In time, you may feel that you will be able to offer another little doggie a loving home, not to replace Molly, but just to be able to share your love once more. Molly will want you to be happy so opening your heart to another would not be a betrayal of the love you had for her. However, for now, be very gentle with yourself and take time to grieve for your little friend. Sending you a comforting hug and loving, healing thoughts. Bless you. XX
Caroline Gibbins
Posted by: Lauren Posts: 1 - Joined: Wed Nov 16th, 2011 10:28 pm

#537 - by Lauren >> Sun Aug 4th, 2013 04:43 pm

i lost my darling girl tango in 2011. at first it does feel like the pain will never go away but time does heal, and eventually you are left with happy memories of a beautiful dog you were lucky to share a portion of your life with. <33

one day maybe you can give another lovely dog a loving home - not to replace Molly in any way, but as a new and different friend. i also found it helpful to get another small pet, i started keeping gerbils [desert rats] shortly after tang died and they quickly became a great source of comfort.
Tango Delia Watkins 01/04/2005 ~ 12/5/2011
Posted by: SandraO Posts: 6 - Joined: Fri Aug 2nd, 2013 06:43 pm

#538 - by SandraO >> Sun Aug 4th, 2013 09:51 pm

Caroline, thank you so much for your kind message! You have given me hope that one day I will get through this, and maybe able to welcome another doggie into my life - I hope so, because I had such a happy time with my Molly and I would love to be able to share my life with another doggie. My love for Molly will never die, she was my very special baby. Thank you for your thoughts and concern. xxxx
Posted by: SandraO Posts: 6 - Joined: Fri Aug 2nd, 2013 06:43 pm

#539 - by SandraO >> Sun Aug 4th, 2013 09:55 pm

Lauren, I am sorry to hear about little Tango. It was kind of you to reply to my post and it helps to hear from someone who understands! Nothing could ever replace my darling Molly, but perhaps some time I may be lucky to share my life with another lovely doggie! Thank you for your kindness xx

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