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I had a look at the Beautiful tributes people have made to their family members, and also the forever homes, I found both very moving Emotionally and was moved to tears and really choked, as I only lost my Beautiful cat Tabitha on the 8.12.2011. perhaps it is a little too soon for me to look at these tender, sensitive , profound, Issues. Love and Affection Deborah xxx

I agree, I do think it is partly about the right timing and also how one is coping with one's grief. Some people find it very hard to acknowledge their grief and allow themselves to express their emotions rather than keeping them locked inside; sometimes reading other people's memorials and tributes can help unlock pent up emotions and in the end make them feel better. On the other hand for others it just serves to worsen their emotional state, prolong the rawness of their grief and delay their healing. I think it is quite an individual thing, as bereavement is in general really.